Happy New Year!

"A new year is 365 new chances."

Merry Christmas.

     I hope that you all had a wonderful Christmas (or whatever holiday you celebrate) and a Happy New Year surrounded by friends and family! Our Christmas vacation started Wednesday the 23rd and ended short on the 27th because of Goliath the winter storm. We flip flop holidays now that our families don't live in the same town anymore, so this Christmas was spent in Odessa with Zack's family. We had an amazing time spending the time with everyone, especially those that we do not get to see except for once a year.

     Zack's family has food traditions for sure! Christmas eve they ALWAYS have a wonderful shrimp boil that Z -- Okay me too-- looks forward to all year, and on Christmas the tradition is to make fajitas! Tammy always goes above and beyond with sides and snacks, you have no idea how yummy, so next year [resisting] is going to be sooooo tough!!  We love sitting around the table and catching up with those who are staying and those who drop in. The crew this year was Zack's two older sisters Ashley and Allison, Ashley's Husband Justin, Zack's cousin Jason, his wife Megan, and their son Tucker, and  last but not least Tammy's parents. Ashley and Justin live in Odessa, so we always get to spend time with them when we venture back to Odessa. Allison lives in Washington DC, so she flies in the week of Christmas to spend until after New Years with their family. Nena and Papaw live in Ruidoso and split holidays with their three girls at the Holidays, so we lucked out that they were "scheduled" to spend this Christmas in Odessa this year.

     We had wonderful weather on Christmas Eve so we spent much of it outside playing with the dogs. Jason came over and chatted with us for a couple hours before we ate dinner, and gave us advice on things that they have learned though out their 5 years of marriage. His advise matched what most people have given us, so we know he wasn't lying haha just kidding! We love hearing everyone's stories of their engaged days and and their lessons learned after marriage. We also got to catch up with Megan and their little one too when she came over before dinner too. Its always fun to be around kids and see the kind of patience and fun Z has with them, he will be a great father one day- Don't worry we still LOVE the option of giving them back to their parents, we are in no rush to start a family!  

     On Christmas we were able to ask Allison and Ashley to be a part of our house party, and they said yes- yay! This is not usually done, especially when you do not have bridesmaids, but I felt like I wanted to ask them to be a part of the showers and parties like Henley is. I love these two and could not be happier that I get to gain two older sisters! We also got the chance to ask his Nena and Papaw to be our officiant and guidance/marital counselors, this was very important and special to the both of us on such a personal level, and we are so blessed for their excitement and acceptance in such important roles. 

* The Robert's Wedding definition of House Party * 

These are people that Zack and I would have chosen as bridesmaids, groomsmen, ushers, or any special part of our wedding. These are people who have been a part of our relationship and who support our future. They will not stand with us but will be a part of showers and parties throughout our engagement and the wedding as they choose.

Happy New Year.

     We both had to work the week between Christmas and New Years so we were back to normal on Monday, although both of our jobs were pretty slow so we both feel okay about taking off that week next year! We planned on spending New Years Eve with friends who will be with us the following year, and were grateful that we could. Rosalyn and Christian invited us over to cook dinner and then spend a nice and relaxing evening with friends (and puppy dogs) ringing in the new year, and starting our countdown at 365 days!! 

     Rosalyn has been a big help and supporter with our future and in questions with planning our wedding. She also graciously said yes to being a part of our wedding party, and we couldn't be more thrilled to have her and Christian be a part of our day and marriage after! We are also so excited to be a part of their new adventure of 2016-- they are expecting their first child, a baby boy due May 1st! This year is looking to be one of the best years for all of our friends!

     We were also able to catch up with Mindy and Lukas this holiday weekend for brunch. This was a fun morning full of catching up and talking about what 2016 holds for each of our stages in life. Mindy and Lukas moved back to Austin about six months ago, and are now three months away from closing on the house that they are building in Round Rock- see a big year for our friends! Zack and I were both blessed to be a part of their whole dating relationship, their engagement as a bridesmaid and groomsmen, and now their marriage. We both want them to be a part of all that we are experiencing in our engagement and future as well, and were blessed when they wanted to be a part of our wedding party as well.

     We wish you and yours all the blessings in the world for your 2016!
Cheers!